Sunday, August 22, 2010
Fear of Stable and United Africa
Tuesday, August 17, 2010
"Ten Things I Want To Say To A Black Woman" (Uplifting My Sistahs and Women in General)
So a dedication to my A-i-T sistahs of all hues and women of all races...enjoy this celebration of you!
Peace,
Friday, August 6, 2010
Does Upgrading Your Wardrobe Make You A Poser?
As a young, black, male, A-i-T, I am extremely aware of the fact that how I and my fellow men of color (MOC) dress, seems to define us more so than many other groups.Why should being Black (or any race) place boundaries on one's experience -- isn't it each individual's job to define his/her own experience as s/he sees fit? Why should it be that clothes define it for us?
Society would have you believe that the official young black male (YBM) uniform is Timberlands/Nikes, baggy/saggy jeans, a tilted baseball cap and a shirt from hip-hop fashion label X. I had my days wearing nothing but Ecko, but now I'm a little older, a little married, and a little working, and my tastes have changed. There is no judgment being passed on my part on anyone who still wears hip-hop fashions -- but herein lies the issue -- The clothing an MOC chooses to outfit himself with seems to speak volumes louder than for your average White (and maybe Asian) guy, and comes pre-loaded with a set of value judgments that he must disrobe himself of in order to be seen for who he truly is.
Think about it, is there any such thing as a typical young White male uniform (YWM)? Does one, or several possibilities come to mind? In contrast to the YBM uniform, which the average person can conjure up in seconds, the YWM uniform is very eclectic, hard to pigeon-hole, and does not necessarily define the wearer's entire identity. How a YBM dresses seems to sharply define his character and separate his identities. There is the presumed, "hood brotha," identifiable at 500 yards by the "YBM uniform" and living a struggling/hustling existence. There is also the "wall street brotha," who "made it" out the hood, as distinguished by his suit. For some strange reason, society says that these two individuals cannot occupy the same body - yet ignorance would dictate that my friend should show up to his finance job wearing Timbs and a do-rag because he's Black...how ridiculous is that?
Buried within this maze also lies class issues, which could fill an entire post. At the end of the day, however, my friend wears Brooks Brothers because that is the uniform at his job, which gives him the means to afford the label. His style of dress may have changed but it has not intrinsically changed his character, in the same way your fashion journey has not altered who you fundamentally are. I will freely admit to having issues with hipsters (the whole trend seems kinda forced), but in general, the notion that upgrading/changing one's wardrobe and having a few experiences outside their norm should make someone a poser, is dubious on its best day...
Adults-in-Training, have you ever received criticism because your style or extracurricular activities have changed and/or differ from an old set of friends?
Peace,
A-i-T
Thursday, July 8, 2010
The Gift & The Curse
Premise: Knowledge = Power = Responsibility
If you are aware of something and do nothing, you might as well be oblivious because your awareness has done nothing to affect your actions. In this age of information overload, there is too much going on in the world that we are aware of, to sit by idly doing nothing. I am now finding that I can no longer exist like this. Through my experiences thus far as a counselor-in-training (C-i-T) and just generally becoming a more conscious A-i-T, my awareness of the world around me, my own thoughts/feelings/reactions to it, and even a heightened sensitivity to what is going on with others is really opening my eyes to how myopic my vision was before. Though I am an African man who has spent the majority of his life on foreign soil, through my classes and readings I am now more aware of the impact of race/racism, heterosexism, and even the invisible male privilege I carry around. I am more aware of the many "marginal" identity badges that people wear in this society and the plethora of "isms" that ride alongside. I am also becoming more aware of how critical social justice is within this and any society. As a result, I now see how many cracks there are in the image of what could be an immaculate society if we only took action to make it so.
This awareness is a gift...I can see, understand, and experience more than I ever could before. It's like Neo in The Matrix proclaiming, "I know Kung-fu!" At the same time, I feel cursed...because I can't turn it off! Everywhere I go, and with everything I see and do, there is now a heightened level of awareness. I find myself, asking myself what is the deeper meaning, and how does it affect me/others? It's like having a computer program running in my mind's recesses 24/7, but with constant pop-ups when it detects something. What in the world do I do with this?!?! Do I rage against the machine, or simply was poetic on my blog and call it a day?
Why not both? My future profession calls me to advocate for my clients, and on a higher level, for social justice. My faith and my humanity compel me on an even deeper level to do the same. In the past, I have shied away from being vocal when I encountered certain situations in public and even from approaching certain topics on my blog. Today is a new day, and the difference I can make is a large or as small as my sphere of influence. This blog falls within those bounds. From now on, I hope this blog can support those hard but necessary conversations, because they are part and parcel of what it means for us to be A-i-T's trying to get our grown folk on. I hope to use the power of this blog (whatever that might be) to responsibly turn awareness into action through the sharing of knowledge and diverse perspectives.
The gift and the curse...well, that all depends on what we do with it...
Fellow A-i-T's, what are you doing or going to do with your gifts?
Peace,
Saturday, February 13, 2010
Why is Television Art Not Reflecting Life?
Saturday, January 16, 2010
Exposing the Hilarious Hypocrisy of Stereotypes...
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Tuesday, January 5, 2010
Avatar -- A 3-Hour Summary of Racial Politics and History -- Who Knew?
I watched Avatar the other day and it was visually one of the most amazing movies I have ever seen. The imagination behind the landscapes, inhabitants, and creatures of this alien world was truly breathtaking. Though almost three hours long, the characters and plot are engaging and well played out, all combining to completely capture one's imagination -- or mine at least. The technical wizardry that seamlessly blends live-action with CGI is light-years ahead of anything we've seen. In an interview I saw with the director, James Cameron, he spoke about how this movie was written more than ten years ago and had to be shelved until they invented the technology to tell this story...How ironic that the storyline is as old as the first European ship that ever set sale to discover distant lands...
Summary: Sometime in the future, we have depleted the Earth's energy resources (shout out to the green movement), and we must rely on distant planets to provide our energy needs (what up OPEC!). We find ourselves on Pandora, a beautiful and pristine planet, reminiscent of the Amazon that is being clear cut and mined to obtain an energy rich and extremely profitable precious metal very appropriately/humorously named "Unobtanium." On Pandora dwell an indigenous people called the Na'vi, who live in harmony with this beautiful world and respect and protect its natural wonders. Through the eyes of a wheelchair bound ex-marine, Jake Sully, we witness a greedy corporation (read: "the West") destroying this beautiful land to obtain the Unobtanium, and of course the Na'vi's village sits atop the richest deposit on the planet. Through his Na'vi avatar, Jake is supposed to infiltrate and become part of the Na'vi people and either convince them to move, or pass on his learned intelligence for a military strike...as expected, conflict ensues...
Despite its futuristic/intergalactic setting, Avatar is the story of imperialism, colonialism, and capitalism in its historical and modern forms. It is the classic tale of the powerful using, abusing, and exploiting those less mighty and usually darker-skinned. Avatar is the history of Africa and parts of Asia. It is the forgotten narrative of the aboriginal peoples of Australia, New Zealand, and the Americas. It hints strongly at being a sharp critique of the war in Iraq and other wars fought over precious natural resources. Avatar is a historical account of race politics, and every war of invasion and conquest ever fought for capital gains, except this time, the natives actually win -- but not without the help of a courageous conqueror turned defender of the good and noble people of the land. It is parts Pocahontas, The Last Samurai, and every cowboy and Indian movie ever made (Dances With Wolves much?). Avatar is a highly entertaining movie, but I wonder if it's creators fully intended it as a wake-up call for a modern world with a short memory of how current circumstances came to be? With all the eye-popping visuals, will moviegoers catch the critical messages?
The racial issues in this movie are blatantly evident. The corporation though somewhat diverse, is a mostly White enterprise, especially reflected in the main characters. In contrast, the Na'vi are tall, blue-skinned, golden-eyed and beautifully exotic (a loaded adjective purposely used). Aside from their other-worldly features, 'other' being the operative word, the Na'vi from visual appearance to their their way of life appear as a blend of Native American and African features, cultures and customs (think Apache meets Masai/Zulu warrior). They are a noble people who are connected to their surroundings in a way that is lost to our modern world. Nature and life in general are treated with the utmost respect and as supremely precious. Whatever energy or resource is taken from the earth must ultimately be returned in order to maintain balance. Their way of life may be looked upon as "simple" or "primitive," but by whose standards?
The corporation, boasting machines, guns, and technology, represent the height of human advancement. They view the Na'vi as "savages" and seek to "civilize" them with the same "benevolent," eternally paternalistic mindset as the European explorers/colonizers of yore that landed on foreign shores with the aim of "teaching" the natives their ways with one hand while taking their natural resources and destroying their culture with the other. The corporation employs the familiar tactics of building schools and sharing technical know-how while pursuing ulterior motives. We must ask ourselves this question, who is the true savage? The one that rapes and pillages the land and destroys the native people, or the one who lives in harmony with their surroundings and respects all forms of life?
This line from the movie made an indelible impression on me. I had to ask my wife if I had heard correctly because I was shocked when I heard it, even though it came from the mouth of the war-mongering, trigger-happy, marine mercenary leader. This line truly highlights the "us" versus "them" storyline in this film. As seen throughout history until today, when indigenous groups refuse to give up their land and resources after being "asked nicely," they must be taken by force. The corporation in Avatar is clearly representative of today's Western governments and multinational corporations, who often work in veiled collusion to exploit the resources and people of the "developing world" (another loaded term). If you don't believe me, please read Confessions of an Economic HitMan, by John Perkins, for an insider's account of how international politics and business play out (Click here for Amazon.com page).
The turning point of the story comes when Jake falls in love with the beautiful Naytiri, the Na'vi chief's daughter and his reluctant tutor. As she teaches him the ways of her people, Sully finally realizes that the corporation he has been playing the good soldier for is inherently evil and wrong in their actions. He courageously switches sides, confesses his sins, loses the trust and faith of his exotic love interest and her people, and yet somehow manages to regroup and return to become the chief of the Na'vi by accomplishing the one nearly impossible traditional right of passage worthy of chieftaincy. He returns triumphantly as the White knight riding the proverbial white horse, which in this case happens to be the most vicious aerial predator on Pandora, appropriately nicknamed "Last Shadow." Jake then unites all the Na'vi tribes from the four corners of the planet and successfully defeats the corporation. Hooray!
This incredibly clichéd ending serves to highlight/perpetuate the notion that indigenous peoples can never save themselves without the help of the oppressor, turned justice seeking crusader. Or is it pointing out a major truth?
As some of you may know, A-i-T is Ghanaian and very proud of that fact. As a Ghanaian/African, I was perhaps more deeply affected by this movie because its themes resonate with my inherited and lived experiences. I realize that the solutions to the current issues must come from Ghanaians themselves, but I also recognize that Western governments and corporations still hold the reins of power -- that's just reality. Until they are willing to share those reins, and help uplift as partners rather than exploit the "developing" nations in this world, the status quo will remain unchanged.
The Native Americans originated the saying: "never criticize a man until you walk a mile in his moccasins [shoes]." Aside from the visual feast that is Avatar, perhaps the most amazing part of the movie, at least to this A-i-T, is that it took Jake Sully literally putting on the blue skin of the Na'vi to understand their experiences and worldview and realize the errors/injustices of the corporation. To me, this is a powerful metaphor, whether intended or not, for what needs to take place on this planet for the betterment of race relations and ultimately for the benefit of our shared collective, as the human race...
To me, Avatar was kinda deep...who knew?
Adults-in-Training, this is what I saw when I watched Avatar...what did you get from this film...?
Peace,
Monday, August 10, 2009
I Mean to Burst Your Bubble...
Please Click Here to read the article that inspired this post:“Westchester Agrees to Add Housing in a Desegregation Pact.”
What?!?! Is this 2009 or 1959? After reading this headline on the front page of today's (August 10th) NYTimes website, I had to check my calendar just to be sure. Desegregation + 2009 = That does not compute…Or does it?
As human beings, we have a natural tendency to settle into living in a bubble – whether externally or self-imposed. This bubble includes our neighborhood, our workplace, our friends/family and the places we go to shop & unwind. It’s a discrete little world that is for the most part, familiar, predictable, and above all, comfortable.
Due to their nature, bubbles (real and social): can float; are transparent; permeable; elastic; reflective; they also at once, include and exclude. I argue, however, that they are most fun when they POP! And that’s what needs to happen, socially speaking, FOR ALL OF US…
The thing about dialogue, especially on race, is that it takes at least two to play the game, but if your bubble and my bubble never bump into each other how can that conversation ever start?
“Residential segregation underlies virtually every racial disparity in America, from education to jobs to the delivery of health care” ~Craig Gurian (Exec. Director, Anti-Discrimination Center)
Keeping it true, race, class, and to some extent, gender, directly impact a person’s ability to create and shape their bubble. To be blunt, the more money and education you have, the better your ability to customize your bubble and the antithesis also holds true. This article reflects Westchester as an exclusive, impermeable, and inelastic bubble, created by the individuals that live there (both actively and passively), and their local government (please do not interpret this as an indictment on Westchester):
“…between 2000 and 2006 the county had misrepresented its efforts to desegregate overwhelmingly white communities when it applied for federal housing funds.” ~Referenced NYTimes Article
As mentioned above, by their very nature, bubbles can include or exclude because they have a membrane (sometimes selectively permeable). When that social bubble is reinforced by active will and/or passive circumstance, it not only keeps foreign bodies out, it also restricts the bubble from expanding beyond its artificial and self-imposed borders. To be fair, similar arguments could be directed at predominantly minority areas like Harlem. However, the critical difference between communities like Harlem and Westchester is that the former, is arguably an externally imposed bubble dictated by socio-economics, politics, etc, while the latter is largely self-imposed.
How do we move forward? Simply put, our bubbles need to come together. The beauty and mystery of bubbles is that when they come close enough to one another, there is a force of attraction that causes them to snap together. I guess they recognize each other as being one of their own. If enough time and/or pressure are exerted, two bubbles eventually become one or they POP! Either result can be beautiful to watch…
Ultimately, our utopian vision should be a world without bubbles – which means there are no barriers to cross or walls to merge and/or break down. I have been blessed in the short 26 years I’ve been on this planet to have lived in London; NYC; Accra, Ghana during high school; Clinton, NY for college, Paris studying abroad; and Boston. The greatest byproduct of all my travels is that my bubble burst, and the rest of the world came rushing in…
Let’s think about NYC briefly from a Manhattan-centric P.O.V.: Some people eat sleep, and breathe below 14th street; for others, all you need is mid-town; still others won’t venture past 96th in either direction, and to most, the Bronx, Brooklyn, and Queens might as well be in another country! Let’s also not forget the cross-town beef between the Upper East and Upper West sides…need I say more?
I know there are still a few miles to go on this issue and a lot of hard work and conversations need to be had, but in the mean time, I hope this post can serve as a polite finger that will rudely burst our collective bubble…
Adults-in-Training, what was your reaction to even reading the word “desegregation” in 2009? What is our role as the next generation stepping up in bursting the bubbles that have prevented progress? Am I making too big a deal out of this? Are bubbles sometimes necessary?
Peace,
A-i-T




